I realise when you despise someone, no matter what they do or say, wrong or right, everything he/she does is so wrong that nothing could change your mind and perspective. Right doings becomes wrong. There's just so much hate towards someone. When you just step back and look at what it really is, there is no point to it.
The thing is, we all don't stop to think what hate does to us and others. What's the point of hating and having so much anger and hateful thoughts stir in our hearts and minds? It doesn't do any good but it only makes you tired and opens wounds. No one really stops to wonder how that person would feel.
In the end we are all human, we all have our flaws, we sin, we do/say things we don't mean, we hurt, we don't think before we do. No matter how big or small your sin is, it's all laid out on the same level but the consequences would be different. All in all, we shouldn't hate and judge people so much for something they've done but to accept that we're all human and we all make mistakes. No one wants to be defined by our choices/actions because at some point in our lives, we make mistakes and there's no way we can undo it.
A simple act of love can sometimes be difficult. But love is important and necessary in life. God first loved us, so we need to learn love others. It all comes back to love, it is the strongest and greatest thing. No doubt. Then again, 1 Corinthians 13
