Some people are just cowards. They come into the situation when they perceive their role in the situation to be fun. But when things start to get messy, they’re the first to remove themselves from the situation.
People are often like this. We want in when things are going well. When things start to get bad, we don’t want to face reality. We don’t want to fix the problem. We don’t want to be part of the journey of helping people grow, being the support that people need especially when they need it the most. You know who your true friends are when they go through the storms with you instead of seeing you on the other side.
Most people are only out there for themselves.